Hello! This blog captures our experiences with Darrell's glioblastoma multiforme (GBM). Thanks for reading. It helps to share.
Sunday, December 20, 2020
The Changing of the Lanterns
Saturday, December 19, 2020
Darrell decorates the tree. I decorate Darrell.
Brain cancer is...
...plain.
Darrell is such a good sport that I deserve zero presents under any tree; his patience and playfulness are all I could ask for.
Friday, December 18, 2020
Christory
Brain cancer is...
...experiencing so much goodness that we needed a new word for the day. (Because still no one has told us we can't do stuff like invent new words.)
Christory. (Noun.) A period of time (as in a day) that celebrates Christmas and the fact that history is being made simultaneously.
LuAnn and we, as parents of those medical workers, felt an actual wave of relief to think of our children as a bit safer in the work they do.
We don't just feel hopeful for our own children, though; we feel the same wave of hope for all the world's children.
Here's to all the world's children being a little safer.
Today's Blooms
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| Paperwhites |
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| Canary Flowers (Wait. There's a bird + flower combination? Genius.) |
Thursday, December 17, 2020
Sweet and Evolving Traditions
Brain cancer is...
...a behind-the-scenes man for Cookie Bake, always.
before we baked today.
Some added benefits of the virtual format were that we started with tours of our decorations in all three houses and that three of the six kids (plus one new cat, dog, and child of those six kids) joined in the fun on camera for a bit.
What is sweeter? Traditions and trading stories or sugar cookies? Let's go with the traditions.
Here's to sweet and evolving traditions!
Today's Blooms
I asked Darrell to pick a flower today. Here's his choice:
Get it? Flour? Flower?
He said, "You know, with Cookie Bake and all!" Nicely done, baking support team man. Nicely done.
Today's Sunrise
Dang, Beth!
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| Murrieta California |
Wednesday, December 16, 2020
So Much Christmas!
Brain cancer is...
...really glad we don't need to talk about our feet today.
Cookie Bake offers more happy memories of friendship and a tradition lasting 30 years...and counting. (Here's the post for Cookie Bake 2019.) Tomorrow is the day!
We came home to a magic porch full of bath toys for granddaughters and instant Christmas. Look what Bekah of the Mayfield clan made! Oh, our hearts!
Long time readers have read lots about dingle balls in the past. (Here's last year's post of us taking the dingle ball stroll with the Mayfields in 2019. Bekah is wearing the Santa hat.)
Dingle balls are important to us. And now we have our very own dingle ball! Here it is at night:
May you, too, experience holiday joy equivalent to receiving your very own dingle ball, friends!
Today's Blooms
Are we the only ones who can hear flowers sing?
Tuesday, December 15, 2020
Poster Child
Brain cancer is...
...a local poster child for GBM longevity.
Monday, December 14, 2020
Kindness without a Face
Brain cancer is...
...impressed by the kindness of Victor.
Here's to a little bit of kindness, with or without a face.
For bird or story lovers: We picked cardinals because we saw them on our stop in Arizona during our grand road trip of February 2020.
For fact lovers: We couldn't figure out why there were so many cardinal ornaments on Amazon, then we discovered that seven states have cardinals as their state bird. Arizona is not one.





























